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Ballroom Dance Resource - Articles on Dancing This is an interesting survey taken by Gail Arias to answer an age old question!"What Men Want From Women" by Gail Arias Thanks to www.dancedancedance.com The following results were taken from a survey of 500 men ages 25 through 45 years old. 99% of the men interviewed took up dancing so they could meet women. Not for the art of dance itself or the love of music alone but solely for the purpose of meeting women to date and have a romance with. Some of these men who in every day life might be considered ineligible, below average in appearance, or just to put it bluntly a "Nerd" actually found women STANDING IN LINE to dance with them. These men had put forth the extra effort to learn how to dance above average or really well. The women standing in line were not all nerds themselves but some model types who could have any "Tom Cruise" type of guy they wanted. Most of the men interviewed are still astounded at the aphrodisiac quality dancing has on women. Now let me clarify something, not all the women are model types but remember, from a man's point of view, when you go from zero dates to dancing with 50 or more women in one night, things are looking good, if you know what I mean. Even if you are a Nerd or just average looking or even prematurely bald or overweight, these women who love to partner dance don't care about all that, they just want a man who can lead them into dance steps. Men know Women love to West Coast Swing, Lindy Hop, East Coast Swing, Hustle, Salsa and Night Club Two Step the Best. So men flock to these classes even though they themselves may prefer a simple Country Western Two-Step. But all the "Head Turners" who like to dress up enjoy Swing, Salsa and even some Hustle Dancing. Why? The music and clothing primarily and of course the popularity right now! BOTTOM LINE: Men are looking for physical contact, a sexual encounter, or a committed relationship. And if they have to learn to dance to increase their chances, they WILL learn to dance. Once a man learns how to dance he discovers a whole new world. He quickly notices that there are usually two women who know how to dance for every one man at any dance party or night club. That is the good news. He also discovers that not all women are interested in having sex with you even if you have been holding her in your arms all night on the dance floor. Oh well, I never said it was perfect. TEN Qualities Men Look for in a Woman! (on and off the dance floor)1. Attractive, neat and clean appearance. 2. Great personality, friendly and outgoing. 3. Happy with her career or job 4. Healthy. Not too thin or too heavy! 5. Intelligent 6. Likes to dance but has a life off the dance floor as well 7. Affectionate and attentive 8. Even tempered. 9. Likes sports or will be O.K. with you liking sports. 10.Good sense of humor Ten Qualities Men Do Not Like In Women:1. Bad breath or body odor 2. Cold and unaffectionate disposition. 3. Messy appearance or greatly overweight (50 pounds or more) or underweight (10 lbs or more) 4. Unemployed 5. Too much make-up. 6. Foul language, loud and abrasive voice. 7. Hypochondriac personality 8. Women who are critical about the way a man leads or dances. 9. Air Head type. Bad conversationalist. 10.Nagging An Overwhelming 90% of the men surveyed said they found it easy to feel closer to a woman who was a good listener and appeared interested in what they had to say. Men also enjoyed being complimented about their dance ability, intelligence and appearance. Most men like a woman who flirts on and off the dance floor (with him of course) but did not like a woman who falsely led them on by flirting only on the dance floor and then ignoring them the rest of the time. 60% of the men interviewed did not like Wonder Bras or stuffed bras. They prefer a woman be herself. Size did not matter. 75% did not like long extension nails that got in the way of dancing and other close encounters. 80% enjoyed being a more advanced dancer than their partner, they also enjoyed helping their partner learn to dance by taking lessons and workshops together. |
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