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The gentleman and the lady have distinct and different roles in all
partnership dancing. This is especially true in Ballroom Dancing.
The role of the gentleman is to lead. Leading involves a variety of
responsibilities.
. The gentleman dances elements which means he must plan his next move ahead
of the actual lead. . The gentleman dances from the partnership center except
during solo movements in which he moves from his own center. . The gentleman
determines the tempo and feeling of the dance through his body movement and
weight changes. . It is very important for the gentleman to have clean foot
work. That means very distinct weight changes which allow the lady to be able to
respond correctly and on time. . The gentleman must slow down, speed up or stop
his movement to control the lady's body momentum. Example; he slows down his
movement for a Waltz hesitation and speeds up his movement then stops abruptly
for a Tango fan. . All of the gentleman's leads are designed to initiate a
natural response from the lady. . The gentleman's lead is usually a step ahead
of when he wants the lady to respond. This makes it feel very natural for the
lady to perform the body movement. In fact, it is very hard for the lady to do
anything else.
The role of the lady is to follow. Following has its own set of
responsibilities.
. The lady dances one step at a time, the one she can feel from the
gentleman's lead. . The lady dances from her center during solo movements and
from the partnership center the rest of the time. . The lady maintains her
off-set position in relation to the gentleman. . The lady provides power to the
partnership during forward movements. . The lady's action and reaction to the
gentleman's lead completes the total feeling of the dance. . The lady needs to
learn the correct response to the lead. For example; the Bolero, Rumba, Cha Cha,
and Samba have the same fundamental underarm turn. The Rumba & Cha Cha
underarm turn feels different because of the music's timing. The Rumba underarm
turn happens on slow, quick, quick; the Cha Cha underarm turn is quick, quick,
quick; the Bolero has the same timing as the Rumba underarm turn but because
Bolero is based on a slip pivot movement, it feels very different, Samba has ah,
quick, ah, quick timing and a pendulum movement that makes the underarm turn
feel different. . The lady must keep in mind that she is responding to the
gentleman's body movement in reference to the center of the partnership. .
Sometimes it is very difficult for the lady to follow when the gentleman's body
is telling her something different from the music. 90% of the lady's wrong or
slow response is because of the gentleman's incorrect, slow or fast lead. When a
gentleman is in learning mode, he is often not with the music. . The lady must
not anticipate the lead because it is designed to get a specific natural
response from the lady. . The lady should let her body move in a natural way and
not try to figure out what to do. . If the gentleman leads you incorrectly,
still try to respond to what is lead, don't try to correct it. If you correct
it, he may never know that his lead was wrong.
Although each person has their own role, there are common responsibilities in
the partnership as well.
. The gentleman's lead and lady's follow is continuous and on going. . The
gentleman and lady need to know the feeling of Cuban motion (American or
International style) for the Latin dances. . Both need to know how the body
moves to develop the specific feelings for each unique dance. For example;
rise/fall - Waltz; staccato movement - Tango; smooth gliding action - Foxtrot,
etc. . The action/reaction, leveraging off each other, lead/follow of the
partnership is what makes turns, swivels, dips, head flecks, spins, over sways,
speed, control, and power work. . Each must keep in mind that you are half of a
four legged animal with a common center.
The gentlemen and lady by themselves does not make the partnership work
rather it is the oneness of the two that results in the wonderful feeling of
power, strength, movement and music that is so addictive.