HOW TO DRESS FOR DANCING
By Mark Balzer
Dancing is a contact sport! Remove keys etc. from your front pockets before
stepping onto the dance floor. Then take off your watches, rings and bracelets!
Watches and bracelets, especially when worn on your right wrist, tend to scratch
your partner's hand, arm, and/or neck. No extravagant belt buckles either! You
can test what you choose to wear to determine if it is hazardous by rubbing your
hand over it. Jewelry, of course, should be very carefully chosen. Be sure to
check your rings, bracelets, and belts for sharp edges or even small points that
can catch in your partner's clothing or jewelry. Long necklaces can also be
hazardous, particularly if you're a fast spinner. Long chains with heavy
broaches that can be hazardous when she spins. Same goes for long hair,
particularly pony tails. Sylvia (of Jonathan and) Sykes has extremely long hair
that she braids and pins to her chest. The way she spins, her hair would be
lethal! Ladies, avoid high hair, doubly-so if sprayed. And don't forget to check
your fingernails and any imperfections they might have that could damage
someone's clothes - if there's anything wrong, borrow a nail-file.
Regardless of gender, when selecting an upper-body garment for dancing, it is
_very_ important that it be cut high in the arm pits and not have baggy or loose
sleeves that can interfere with your partner getting a hand to your back. Aside
from the inconvenience, such garments can also be dangerous as a leader might be
looking for a way to get around your garment rather looking to avoid other
dancers. You may even have to baste shut men's long sleeve shirt cuffs because
the buttons can get caught in the lady's hair. The waist and bodice should also
not have excessive fabric. Not that you should wear skin-tight garments nor even
tight-fitting ones, only that excessive fabric can create problems and
accidental undesired body contact. You should also avoid lace where your
partner's hands are likely to be (on the dance floor :-) Jewelry can sometimes
catch on lace or other loose weaves.
Long skirts that fly out when you spin can often be an interference. This is
particularly true when they're cut so that they fly out from higher than
mid-thigh. The shorter the skirt, the higher the fly-point can be. Long skirts
provide the lovely sight of flowing fabric, but it's very important that there
be enough room for the leader to get his knee between the follower's legs; many
skirts prevent that. For men who have to wear a jacket and tie to an event: take
off the jacket and tie when you dance!
Be sure to wear an undershirt - sweat spots show much worse on your typical
dress shirt than they do on the multi-colored rayon shirts so many of us wear as
standard dance fashion. Avoid silk shirts without an undershirt.
This is a personal view of what women should and should not wear to
facilitate the mechanics of Social Dancing, written by a man. The point of view
is primarily Swing, but I think the same general ideas apply to all forms of
Social Dancing.
UPPER BODY: Leaders and Followers must have quick and easy access to their
partners' backs. Therefore sleeves should be cut high into the armpit and not
have very loose cloth above the waist line, particularly the upper arms.
Sleeveless tops are just fine, too.
I'm very uncomfortable trying to Lead from a bare back that's slippery with
sweat. I much prefer fabric that covers the shoulder blades or anywhere else
with which I'm likely to have manual contact. I also prefer zippers to buttons
because the spaces between buttons are often entered thus allowing contact with
slippery skin or bra straps. Garments that expose the stomach are also
undesirable for the same reasons as bare backs.
Very clothy upper body garments can conceal exactly where we don't want our
hands to go on the dance floor. Sometimes dancers I know wear such garments and,
if they're wearing a different bra, might not be where I know they were.
And, please, unless you're so small-breasted that you don't need a bra, wear
one!
LOWER BODY: I think pantsuits are not only attractive and flattering, but
particularly suitable for Swing dancing.
Pants of any kind are just fine. For the mechanics of dancing, pants have no
negative qualities.
Long skirts are fine if they're loose enough to, at knee level, pass a bit
farther than to the backs of the thighs. Long skirts can also be a nuisance if
they're cut so that they fly high. Bell cuts work well, though.
After pants, short skirts from about 4" above the knee are best. But not
tight ones. Extremely short tight skirts are usually not a problem to dance with
but can be a nuisance for the wearer. I find that short skirts that flare are
best not only to dance with but to watch, even those that are cut to expose
nothing but leg.
JEWELRY: Jewelry, in particular, should be selected with extreme care. Before
putting on a bracelet, watch, brooch, or ring, you should pass your hand over it
to ensure that it has no sharp edges that can cut or points that can catch in
clothing.
Brooches, best not worn, should be placed high on the chest where contact
with your Leader's clothing is least likely.
Necklaces should be no longer than the top of the cleavage/bottom of the
chest.
BELTS: About once a month, it seems, a belt hook will slip under one of my
rings and bring us to a halt to disconnect. Haven't gotten hurt yet but I have
broken a few belt buckles. Belt closures covered by the fabric of the belt are
best. Belts with numerous articulations, particularly those of metal, can be
quite hazardous. I will not dance with certain types of them.
HAIR: When Sylvia Sykes had a waist-length braid of great thickness, she
pinned it to her chest thus alleviating any hazard it could cause. The way she
spins, a blow from that braid would have been disabling! Unless your hair is
extremely fine and soft, resulting in a gentle brush of your partner's face, it
can not only be painful when striking a face but hazardous if it slashes through
an open eye. If your hair falls below the top of your shoulders, you should
style it in such a way that it will not fly into contact with your partner.
You should avoid hair styles that require being held by spray. If you're a
very experienced dancer capable of controlling your Leader's hand position over
your head, you know what you're doing. But if you're not, the hair atop your
head should be rather close to it in order to avoid getting really messed up.
Besides, if you're dancing properly, you'll sweat enough to mess up the lovely
look you had when you left home, anyway.
HATS: Unless you're in a C/W competition that requires 'em, leave 'em at the
check room
This file is part of the lead/follow FAQ list. These are articles compiled
from the newsgroup rec.arts.dance by Mark Balzer http://www.eijkhout.net/lead_follow/index.html